7 Sex Tips for Parents

Sex life?  What sex life?  You’re a parent and life is so busy that you barely have time to think about your own needs, let alone do anything about meeting them.  It can seem like your own needs don’t matter, it’s the children that have top priority and you have to do whatever it takes to look after them.  Don’t be fooled, your needs are important and neglecting them isn’t good for anyone, not you, not your partner and definitely not your children.  Sure you can’t do all the things you did before children, life has changed and pleasure comes in different ways.  But you are still an adult with adult needs and for you to feel fulfilled they need to be met.

                                         

So how do you find time and energy for sex when there are so many other things demanding your attention?  It takes a bit more planning and effort than in the past but you need to tell yourself that it can happen and it is definitely worth it.

What if you don’t want anyone touching you after having children crawling all over you all day?  Some people have a quotient for the amount of physical contact they need and can comfortably accommodate in a day.  But if you think about it children touch you differently to how your partner touches you and for the most part, it’s all take.

So how do you have more sex?  Okay, how do you have any sex?

1. Make it a priority and it will happen.  Feeding the children quickly becomes a priority when you have nagging children at your feet.  Make your desires like that and don’t let up until you have got what you need.

2. Find a time that works.  It may be early in the morning before the children wake up, it may be immediately after they’ve gone to bed ignoring the dishes and the washing and cleaning up, it may be during the day while the kids are watching a video.  You have to make time for each other.

3. Do some things that make you think about sex.  It can be hard to switch your brain from babyland to sex so you may need a little help.  Watch a sexy movie, read erotic fiction together, write your partner a sexy note, think back to a time when you had great sex (c’mon you can do that, it can’t be that long, surely, you have children afterall!), relive how good it felt.

4. Take a shower together.  There is something about getting naked and wet together that can be very erotic.

5. Expect interruptions and don’t be put off.  OK you start kissing and you hear a baby cry.  You try to ignore it but you can’t.  So you go off and tend to them and then think the moment is gone.  But it isn’t.  And if it is then get it back by viewing the interruption as a diversion which has increased your appetite for sex not soured it.

6. Don’t wait until you get into bed to initiate sex.  When you’ve been together awhile it’s easy to fall into habits, like falling into a deep sleep as soon as your head touches the pillow, and sometimes it’s those habits that you need to break in order to kickstart your sex life.  Sex can happen anywhere so make use of the spaces you have.

7. And the most important thing you need to do – don’t give up!  You can find a way to make it happen.  Know that your needs are important and you will function better when they’ve been met.

3d sex games

They can also come in the form of variation of conventional online games such as card games with a sexual twist. There are multiplayer games or games that can be played with a computer generated character. It can be in a controlled setting with a theme or a very open-ended type game. There is something for everyone as games are made for persons of various sexual orientations, even bisexuals. No matter the type of game, there is fun to be had by adults using online sex games.

3d sex games are available with varied levels of interaction. They can be as  as you want or can be require very little input from the player, consisting more of video-type content. Virtual characters can be personalized and selecting what they look like and wear, the types of activities they engage in, what they say or the situations they find themselves in.  3d sex games can also involve actual interaction with real persons versus playing against the computer. This can involves typed interaction or actual spoken and visual interaction using microphones and webcams. It is the new way to meet and date persons while attaining the optional, additional benefits. Men can enjoy instantaneous sex if they want and women can take it slower if thats what they wish to do, vice versa.

Some games allow you to access and update your virtual avatar in the online adult game on a continuous basis. 3d sex games can be testing grounds for the real world. Although online adult games in no way replace other social mediums persons may use these interactions to build confidence or to compensate for temporary periods of loneliness. The realm of online sex games is so varied that there is something to suit every type of individual or need. The number of games and features keeps growing to satisfy the wishes of gamers worldwide.

                                                 

Playing a 3d sex game does not indicate that one is sex deprived or a sex freak. The simulations are so real that cybersex is becoming more and more attractive. In some cases it is simply used to spice up or complement an active sex life. These games can be used as a facilitator for cybersex among couples in a long distance relationship, for example. It can also be used as a medium through which fantasies that they are too shy to enact in real life can be acted out via the internet. It can be a couple's activity used to bring the two together in an intimate way. On the other hand, it can also  be an anonymous and discreet way for persons to interact sexually with strangers, or new acquaintances. 3d sex games are made for adults to enjoy with each other can are very different from childish games. The aim is for the participants to have fun in an adult way, responsible but exciting way.